After A Great Pain A Formal Feeling Comes
So, there I was, sprawled on my couch, nursing a freshly twisted ankle. I'd been on a hike, trying to outrun a storm, and well, you know how that ended. I was in pain, the kin...
So, there I was, sprawled on my couch, nursing a freshly twisted ankle. I'd been on a hike, trying to outrun a storm, and well, you know how that ended. I was in pain, the kind that makes you grit your teeth and swear under your breath. But as the hours passed, something strange happened. The throbbing subsided, and in its place, a weird sort of calm settled over me. It was like my body had done its job, screamed and hollered until it was satisfied, and now it was time for a chat. That's when I started thinking about this whole 'after great pain, a formal feeling comes' business.
Emily Dickinson and Her Mysterious Ways
You might be wondering where I'm getting all this from. Well, blame it on Emily Dickinson. She was this 19th-century poet who had a thing for capitalizing random words and dashes. She also had a knack for summing up life's complexities in a few lines. One of her poems goes like this:
After great pain, a formal feeling comes —
The Nerves sit ceremonious, like Tombs —
The stiff Heart questions 'was it He, that bore,
The Artisan of Death?'
Now, I'm no literary expert, but even I can see she's onto something here.
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Pain's Aftermath: The Formal Feeling
So, what's this 'formal feeling' all about? Well, it's like when you've been through something intense, and afterwards, you're left with this weird sense of calm. It's like your body and mind are having a meeting, and they've decided to take things slow. It's not joy, not sadness, just... stillness.
Emily Dickinson Quote: “After great pain, a formal feeling comes. The
Think about it. After a big cry, don't you feel a bit drained but also sort of peaceful? Or how about after a tough workout? Your muscles are sore, but there's this sense of accomplishment, right? That's the formal feeling in action.
Why Does It Happen?
Science says it's got to do with our body's response to stress. When we're in pain or under pressure, our body releases hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. After the stressor's gone, our body needs time to recover, to reset. That's the formal feeling - our body's way of saying, 'Alright, let's take a breather.'
Emily Dickinson Quote: “After great pain, a formal feeling comes. The
Embrace the Stillness
Now, I'm not saying we should all go out and hurt ourselves just to feel this formal feeling. But next time you're going through something tough, remember Dickinson's words. After the storm comes the calm. After the pain comes the stillness. It's okay to pause, to breathe, to feel that formal feeling.
So, here's to the formal feeling. May it find us after every storm, every hike gone wrong, every heartache. And may we have the wisdom to embrace it, to sit with it, to let it do its job.