How To Top When You Are A Bottom

So, you're a bottom, right? No judgment here, we're all friends over coffee. But hey, you've been thinking, "What if I wanted to top sometime?" Well, grab that latte, let's chat about it.

First things first, why the sudden interest?

Maybe you're curious, maybe you're in a new relationship, or maybe you're just feeling like trying something new. Whatever it is, it's all good. It's your body, your pleasure, your rules.

Now, let's address the elephant in the room. Size matters, but not in the way you think. It's not about being huge, it's about communication, consent, and comfort. Got that? Good.

Talk it out

Before you even think about action, talk to your partner. Tell them you're interested in trying something new. Listen to their thoughts, feelings, and concerns. It's a two-way street, communication is key.

And hey, if they're not ready or not into it, that's okay too. Respect their boundaries, and maybe you can try something else together instead.

Now, let's get practical

Prep time

Just like cooking a fancy meal, you gotta prep. Lube is your best friend here. Don't skimp on it, and don't be afraid to use lots. It's not just for penetration, it can make everything feel smoother and more enjoyable.

Also, relax. Seriously, don't rush. Take your time, explore each other's bodies, build up the anticipation. It's all part of the fun.

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Position game

Missionary might be your go-to, but there's a whole world of positions out there. Try different ones to see what works best for both of you. Some favorites? Doggy style, cowgirl, or even spooning.

And remember, it's not a race. Slow and steady can win the pleasure game too.

Aftercare

So, you've done the deed. Now what? Cuddle, talk about how it was, what you liked, what you didn't. Share a laugh, share a moment. That intimacy is just as important as the act itself.

And hey, if you decide topping isn't your thing, that's okay too. There's nothing wrong with being a bottom, or switching it up, or just doing whatever feels good for you.

So, there you have it. Topping 101. Now go forth, communicate, experiment, and most importantly, enjoy. And remember, no matter what you're into, you do you, boo. That's what makes you fabulous.